Good morning!
Actually, I’ll let you know how good it is in about six minutes when I know if
Amena and Cedric both got on the bus. Actually, I’ll let you know if it is good
at that point. If it isn’t, I’ll be catching up with the bus. Or at least if
they don’t get on the bus, I’d better be catching up because I’m not making
three trips to Barre today.
Yesterday was okay.
Saturday was okay. Friday was okay.
I like this picture. |
Friday Seth, Joseph
and I went to Barre Falls Dam to plant Joanna’s Wild Child letterbox. I was
expecting to do a loop but when we were at about the 1.7 mile mark I realized I
should have looked at the maps more closely because there is a gap in the trail
when it comes to a river. A gap where there used to be a bridge that is no
longer there.
There might be something hiding on the other side of this tree/these trees if you happen to go letterboxing. |
Just hanging out. |
Saturday involved
collecting food for Scouting for Food and planting garlic and cleaning out one
room for the goats. (Amena made the bus but at the other end of the driveway.)
Collecting food was easy. Cleaning out the goat part of the barn was easy.
Planting garlic was easy. Cedric was supposed to empty the manure out of the
truck into the last two beds I currently have in the garden and took all day. Joseph
helped with garlic. We had to pull some grass out of the bed first and it was
the stuff with the really long roots.
The garlic bed before working on it. |
The garlic bed ready for garlic. |
Yesterday was just
Sunday. Other than Paul, Seth and Joseph taking the collected food to Rutland,
it was a pretty typically average Sunday.
One thing I thought
interesting which I don’t really want to elaborate on much, Dan talks to Joanna
and tells her that the reason he isn’t smiling in any of her wedding pictures
is because of me and he has nothing good to say about anyone and thought that
none of us wanted him there (which may have been true). He called two Sundays
ago and the boys weren’t here so he wanted to talk to me and he’s all just the
same as usual; somewhat awkward and telling me that he thinks we all need counselling
and then making a big point of telling me that Laura said goodbye when he left.
Great. Interestingly, Cedric and Amena had the biggest problems they’ve had for
some time within 48 hours of this conversation. Yesterday, he told Cedric that
the reason he called back at 9:00 the previous Sunday (which call was not
answered because I didn’t hear my phone ringing because someone turned the
volume off) was to see if perhaps Cedric had wanted to ask if he could go live
with Dan. Really? He still has nothing good to say about me or any of the rest
of us even after going on rather extensively when he came out for the wedding
telling me how he’d been working on forgiving everyone. I don’t think he has. I
think he is an interesting mix of a narcissist and something else and the only
feeling I have for him now is pity that he must stay in the past and is not
able to move on. Well, that’s not entirely true but I’ve spent more time on the
subject than I was going to.
And, I’m sorry to
say, I’m not done. I did not spend any time writing anything between October 5
and about the 15th. I picked Dan up from the train station in
Fitchburg on the Thursday before the wedding which happened to be my and Paul’s
anniversary. I gave Dan, Seth and Joseph a ride to Dunn Park later that day. I
gave them a ride to Walmart the next day. Saturday I picked Dan up and took him
to the wedding. I may not have particularly enjoyed my time with him but I
think that Joanna did the right thing in inviting him and I was doing my best
to do the right thing as well. It is true that Paul did not want him to be
there. He didn’t want to sit at the same table as Dan and I can understand
that. Joanna had her reasons for putting him at the table with us and I happen
to agree with them. It annoys the heck out of me that I went out of my way to do things for this man and all he can do is say that it is because of me he didn’t smile for the pictures. Get over it.
Now I’m done. For
today.
Up for today are
fairly typical Monday-type activities. I
am going to make an apple pie with dried apples later today and see how much pumpkin
I have in the basement for pumpkin pie. I’m not feeling any particular urge to
make any other pies so I probably won’t. I think Paul said yesterday he’d cook
the turkey. Honestly, that’s the least of my worries. It’s super easy to take
care of the turkey; it’s everything else that is time consuming and I usually
hate doing. Thanksgiving is fine and we should be thankful for our blessings
but I think we overdo it and I honestly hate having to make all this food so we
can behave in a gluttonous manner for a few minutes. Seriously. Where else do
people spend days cooking and baking for a meal that takes about fifteen
minutes to consume? Really. I timed us a year or two ago. Everyone was done
eating in about fifteen minutes. That didn’t include pie because, unlike Paul,
I like to have my pie later, but still. Fifteen minutes and it’s done.
Have a wonderful
day.
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