You know, some mornings I really just would like to get up and walk to
a new life. Especially on mornings like this when I think I have a few minutes
before I need to go out and milk and then the dog starts retching beside me. As
if that isn’t enough, she produces semi-solid grossness that no one else is
going to clean up so I might as well do it so that it’s done. Then I sit back
down, my mind still back in time when I had a few minutes, look at the time
because I always write the time when I’m writing in a journal, which is what
this is before I post it, and see it is now time to go milk. Can I just say that
there are times when I just don’t want to?
Now, thirty-two minutes later, the goats are fed and watered and Zoey
is milked. I’ve used the bathroom with Billy Idol in tow (which means I’m in
there longer than I normally would be because I just have to get to the end of
a chapter or at least paragraph). I’ve realized I didn’t put the milk away.
Now, eleven minutes later, I’ve decided to have spicy hot chocolate for
breakfast and so it is on the stove now getting hot since I’ve done everything
that needed to be done to get to that point.
And so it goes.
During those aforementioned thirty-two minutes, I went upstairs looking for the
flannel shirt that I usually wear out to milk and feed goats. It keeps the hay
another layer away from my skin and it keeps me warmer than without. As I walk
into the bedroom, Paul says, “Yes?”
“Nothing,” I answer.
“Nothing?”
Yeah, nothing. I’m not looking to talk. I’m not looking for someone
else to tell me where the shirt is.
I'm borrowing this picture that David posted on Facebook. If I could teleport, I would. |
I almost want to say that that is what I want to do today: nothing. But
it isn’t true. I want to do several things. I want to plant some seeds. I want
to go to Auburn with Julia. I want to read more of Dancing With Myself. I want to go over more of my chapters. I want
to ponder. I want to go letterboxing with Seth and Joseph.
A part of me does want to do nothing. It is that part of me that is
tired.
I am tired of people criticizing others for behaviors and actions they
themselves exhibit.
I am tired of the medical establishment doing its very best to
discourage women and normalize artificial.
I am tired of trying to be something that I’m not. I am 48-years-old
and I still feel that I’m living my life more for others based on what they
expect rather than what I want and need.
I am tired of the constant stupid battles of life. Life is a battle but
many of the battles are good because they lead to a better self. Those I can
deal with because although they may lead to exhaustion, they are not the
pointless battles for nothing.
Paul is tired, too. He does not like his job. He works for idiots. He
would love to find another job. I would love for him to find another job. I
would love for him to find a job in the west but I don’t think he wants to.
Sometimes it feels like he doesn’t want to because he knows how much I want to
go back west.
You know, I’m about one third of the way through Dancing With Myself and it has been a very good book for me. I
always liked Billy Idol. In the middle of the big hair days, he had short hair.
In the middle of the big hair days, I usually wore mine braided. Yeah, not
really a lot of similarity there but he dared to be different in spite of
insecurities. I dared to be different but not to stand out. Am I ready now?
This is absolutely not what I was expecting for today. I was wondering
how on earth I was going to contain myself because there are so many thoughts
running through my mind. There still are but I’m going to let them ferment a
bit.
In the meantime, I hope you have a lovely day.